Most men the stay in the same city they are born in and they live their whole life there. They never ask themselves whether there could be a better way of life somewhere else. The same happens with sexual life. Most men experience a level of sexual success in their lives and they never question themselves whether they could have more or if they could had better women in their life. Making excuses is a basic characteristic of human psychology. It calms us down so that we can survive longer, but in some cases it also cuts us off from further progress.