Breaking up with your partner is one of the toughest experiences you can go through in your life. If you are in a midst of one right one you are probably going through all emotions associated with a break up: denial, sadness, frustration and anger. The reason why people don't get back together with their ex is not for the lack of trying, but because they haven't been shown a step-by-step action plan they can start using immediately. This will not happen to you. There are 3 initial strategies that will put you on the right track to getting your ex back.