Things are usually hunky dory during the first few years of marriage, though there could be intermittent clash of views. But over the years, the small fights become big obstacles impacting communication, expressions of love and togetherness. The critical mistake committed by most people is that they ignore such early signals. Chances are very high that the misunderstandings are arising out of frustrations resulting from 'unmet needs'. Or, to put it more aptly, both of you have very high expectations of each other. To save your marriage, here are some pointers on why and how you can keep fair expectations from each other.