Do you think you and you life partner are walking towards for a divorce or just simply drifting apart? Do you feel as though the passion that once existed has fizzled out, and you're not sure if it will ever catch fire again? You can salvage your marriage and even get the romance back, like so many others. The first thing you have to know in order to preserve your marriage is to learn how it went wrong in the first place. Many couples with problems say lack of communication skills as one of the biggest reasons their marriage is not working.