First of all, don't be misguided by a lengthy series of diplomas following an author's name. Spending long years in school is an easy escape from the real world for some. These relationship gurus have spent more time studying in classrooms and libraries than interacting with real people. By the age of 35, they got advanced degrees in psychology without any real life experience. Now they are flaunting their degrees to prove that they are experts. But do you really believe that their expertise will be applicable in the real world?