I love lists. Grocery lists, playlists, lists of places to go, people to meet, things to do before 20, 25, 30. And now I have to start thinking of things to do before MY wedding, yes MY wedding. I don't know where to start except by finding a list. A wedding planner book seems the most reasonable thing to consult. Who can afford a real planner these days? So if I can just get my hands on one of their lists I can make myself useful by just following the prompts, Can't I?