If you have had enough and are saying "I want to divorce my wife", then you will want to follow these 4 steps...and follow them closely... If you are among the numerous men who have come to the weighty conclusion that, yes, you are going to divorce your wife, then your next steps are incredibly crucial and should not be taken lightheartedly. Follow these steps and you will be assured to give yourself the best chance of getting everything you deserve in your divorce.