How You Can Help Abuse Victims

How can you, a person outside of your loved one's abusive relationship, help her? Is it possible to make her abuser behave differently? Nope. Is it possible to get her out of that situation?! Not without her consent. Is it possible to convince her she's being abused? Maybe, but until she's unwilling to put up with it anymore, she is willing to live with it and must therefore live with the consequences of her decision. But never fear, there are SOME things you CAN do that are good for you and good for her.