Why Am I Embarrassed by My Husband's Affair? My Opinion Based on Experience

The other day, I had a wife who was struggling with her husband's infidelity write to me. She was coping as best as she could, but one thing had her stumped and struggling. She wanted to know why she felt so ashamed and guilty about her husband's affair since it was her husband who should be feeling these things, not her. She had not cheated. This thought would never cross her mind. She was pretty sure she had been a reasonably good wife. Still, she just could not shake feeling so embarrassed by something that was out of her control. I will tell you what I explained to her in the following article.