The following are three of the positions that were voted as the best for lasting longer in bed. Regardless of what your aim is, it is important that you move slowly and don't rush. Studies have shown that women prefer to go at a steady state of arousal.It is either fast all the way (which is the least favorable for males that suffer from ED) or, taking it slowly. As long as you stay calm, and keep a steady tempo and not rush things, your partner will be very impressed with your ability to control yourself. Without further ado, let us get onto the positions!