To be able to understand and learn how to approach girls, you have to learn to get rid of the shy Mr. Nice Guy in you. Believe it or not, girls don't get turned on or are interested in guys who are too sweet to them. They actually don't find guys who act as their best friends interesting romantic partners for them as well. What these girls are looking for are men who can actually sweep them off their feet AND keep them on their toes at the same time. If you do not want to be the kind of guy that has to dry up the tears of girls who turn to you because the guys they like blew them off, then read on.