Dating After Divorce - Connecting on Facebook - Cyberspace Vs Real Life

Last week, Alice, a divorced woman in her 40's, wrote to me asking for dating coaching advice about a guy on Facebook. She's been reconnecting with school buddies and found one guy she had a big crush on in high school. Tom responded to her friend request and emails very positively - he seemed genuinely happy to hear from her! She was asking me for advice on her next step because she had been too aggressive in the past and didn't want to mess this one up.