If you've decided to get out there and meet people and you're venturing out to the local clubs (or for the technologically savvy socialites) the singles chat rooms and free dating websites, you're going to want to feel as sexy as possible before you meet your potential Mr Right in the flesh. Of course, do whatever you need to do to make yourself look as good as possible - only because this will help you feel more confident. But while you're exfoliating your face, putting on your sexiest underwear (which you have NO intention of letting him see on the first date) and spending a fortune on miracle hair products, understand this: sex appeal has more to do with what's inside than outside.