Break ups can be difficult on both parties involve and the family that may have had a vested interest in the couple. But it does not mean that the relationship is truly over. In fact, it could just be beginning. There should always be hope that the relationship will develop again and that you could get your ex girlfriend back. Many successful relationships go through a period where the couple took time off from each other. It could have been because they each wanted to see what their options are before taking the relationship to the next level. But what ever the reason, the spark can come back.