How to Repair Your Marriage After an Affair If Your Spouse Still Has Feelings For the Other Person

I often get emails from people who are trying to heal from infidelity in their marriage. Despite the shock and the pain, they are willing to do the hard work to save the marriage. However, there is a very big something that is standing in their way - and that is, their spouse still has feelings for the other man or the other woman. I often hear things like: "my husband says he wants to stay and wants to save the marriage after the affair.