To be able to know just how to approach women and actually get them to chase after you, the first thing that you have to do is to get rid of the Mr. Nice Guy in you. Yes, though this may sound quite intimidating, you will actually turn girls off if you're too sweet or too nice to them. For a clearer description, they don't want a guy who acts like their best friend. Don't put yourself in this kind of position if you don't want to be the kind of guy the girls turn to after being blown away by the guy they actually like.