Many couples who try to work through their problems end up using divorce as a way to end it all. While this may be an efficient way to end the arguing and the problems between the two people, it's not an efficient way to stay together and keep your marriage alive and prospering. All other options must be exhausted before even considering marriage. Most people think that before they choose to get a divorce that they have gone through all their options, but the truth is that most couples that end up getting a divorce just don't know how to go about saving their marriage.