What Steps Can I Take in Getting My Ex Girlfriend Back?

The majority of people after breaking up with a girlfriend ask themselves, "What can I do to get her back?" Then they start to dig into the past to see if they could think of the negative aspects of their relationship. Of course there will be negative aspects because even the best of relationships have these. After pin pointing some problem areas they start making plans to write apology letters and other things that would entice her to get back with them.