How Do I Save My Marriage? - What I Did to Save My Marriage and What You Should Do to Save Yours

Let me now be as direct as I can. What I did to save my marriage, was to be taught THIS key thing: "you can't save a marriage, or maintain a marriage; by endless self-sacrifice." What this means is that according to this view (which is what made me save my marriage); talking to your spouse, trying to settle everything by reaching compromises etc...